So

I'm your average looking, young 20 year old guy. I live in South Africa. I have always had a preference for white girls, nothing against black girls its just a personal preference.

I'm starting to wonder why I'm here or why I am even posting this. So like many young guys trying to find out the secrets to getting in a women's pants, I read Neil"Style" Strauss book The Game. I was bored and heard it was a good book. I couldn't put it down, a lot of what he was saying I kind of knew or it was clicking. So the weekend I finished reading it I tested it out. It all worked. I'm an amateur but I applied simple ideas like The Alpha Male qualities and IOI's and I even used the cube successfully. By the end of the night I had a new hot girlfriend on the way. We dated and broke up.

I realized what I was missing was guidance or even new learning. Or even just have a close to perfect understanding of all thing a PUA should know.So I looked around until i found site but they didn't feel real. Then I stumbled here and 2 names automatically Adam Lyons and Sinn. Subconsciously these two names have pushed me here. Believing in the community the one I read about I'm trying.

So just like some of the originals I have a list:

*Be able to get any girl I want without being an ass
*Being able too use the techniques and tools I learn in all aspects of my life
*Not Reinvent but become the me I always wanted too be.
*Have a 6 Pack in 12 Months
*Change the way and improve how I store and retrieve memories.
*Change my self perception- I was diagnosed with Bipolar II I'm under SPAM but I want to get off it
*Over see the potential everyone says they see in me
*Quite Smoking

Im just saying this in case- im a person with feelings. I trust you guys. Cause im believing in the community
If anyone is willing to help guide me I'm willing too put my in the effort and time.
Pattycake

Welcome!

You've got a great list of goals.
You absolutely don't have to be an ass to get girls. Check out my article on how being a nice guy can get you laid here: http://chiefpua.com/how-being-a-nice-gu ... -you-laid/
Unrelated to pickup, but I quit smoking by switching over to electronic cigarettes. Lots of smokers say that I didn't actually quit since I'm still getting nicotine, but nicotine isn't what's bad for you - it's all of the other chemicals and burned shit from the cigarette. I highly recommend all smokers to switch over to vapor. It's been really great for me so far.