Brothers,

If you don't know me, you can refer to me as Nice Lad or Nice Guy. I am almost twenty-seven years old, am a virgin, and I am living proof that women don't necessarily flock in droves to good-looking or athletic men. I am Spanish by blood and could maybe pass as a cousin of Gambler. I don't feel too nervous with women, I tease them, and do not carry myself like a total AFC. I am not revealing this to brag, but to demolish the idea that good looks are necessary.

I do believe that I can be manly and honest with women while treating them with respect. If I acted like a total bad boy or brute, however, I don't think that I would come across congruently. So, where is my sticking point? I am not too smooth and I sometimes say stupid things. Yet, I am working on this.

Currently, I am in the process of performing a massive social experiment related to meeting women. Upon completion, I hope that at least one person may benefit from my efforts and findings. My best wishes are on behalf of everyone on the forum.

Sincerely,
Nice Lad

You didn't really write enough for us to figure out your sticking point. Do you care too much about a result? Do you only talk to hot girls? When you're talking to a girl, are you focused on what you can get out of the interaction (IE get laid) or what you can give (IE show her a good time, make her laugh etc)

You seem confident enough... maybe you could make a new thread detailing a situation, asking for what you could've done better?

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

J. Daniels,

In the future, I'll try to post a new thread to possibly obtain some advice. I use a direct style. I don't think I come across as desperate. I naturally like to have fun and make women laugh. Perhaps, I should think more about the women themselves? I talk to all types of girls and even have ugly female friends. Admittedly, women are easily attracted to me. Yet, I often do not gain their trust or succeed in making them comfortable with me.

Furthermore, I am in college. I discern that I often vibe best with women who are in their late twenties or early thirties. I get the impression that some of them would like for me to close the deal within the same day of meeting them. Yet, they often don't follow up with me for dates. I do try to qualify them and connect with them. Perhaps some of these ladies whom I approach don't meet up with me since they have graduated and want someone who is more stable? Let me know what you think.

-Nice Lad