Hey all

My name is Steve and I'm new to PUA. I am seeking some advice but first let me type a bit about myself.

I spent most of my late teens playing video games and had no sense of purpose and was skinny and childish. At the age of 22 I got over living a shitty life and started lifting weights. I then studied NLP and recently NLP masters and am a master practitioner. I am also very passionate with my weight training and have put on 16kgs of muscle mass in 18 months of training.
I feel good about myself all the time, especially with NLP I have a great deal of control over how I think and feel. I don't think I could be in any better of a state than I am now.

I have never been that great with approaching women and for most of this year I have been in relationships, with the most recent one ending a month ago. This was a much needed spring clean for me to go and explore other women.

I have so much to offer but I haven't been sure on how to present it, which has been a big problem for me. What girl isn't going to be attracted to a man who can make them feel amazing and is always self developing and taking steps towards creating the life that he wants and knows what he wants?
I also believed until very recently, that women are visual in their attraction to us as we are to them. I am late in learning that women are attracted to how they feel around a man more so than what he looks like, how confident he is and how comfortable he is with who he is and his sexuality.
If I straight away tell a girl about all the awesome things that I do it's far too intense and giving them too much far too quickly right?

So now I think that I have it figured out. Approach a girl, make her laugh, get her number, take her out and then decide to make advances towards sex or a relationship and THEN tell her about all the awesome things I do when I have decided she is worthy. Mystery is interesting right?
I had never been comfortable approaching girls but have started doing so in clubs over the last few weeks and gotten mostly positive responses and a few numbers. I have very quickly learned, after watching gamers on youtube, to go up to girls, get right in front of them and talk slowly with a soft tone. I have super fast English syndrome and am having to overcome that. I have basically been modelling my approaches by watching talented PUA's on youtube and it's working pretty well for me, I scored a date with a beautiful girl I met on Saturday night and I have exchanged less than 200 words with her just by being witty and funny.

I don't really want a relationship and I'm not sure what I'm going to do with this new found knowledge. I am just going to keep talking to every girl I see who I find attractive, get their numbers and go from there. I haven't really used any NLP with my approaches except for very basic things like mirroring and matching to enhance rapport. I might start applying a bit of anchoring with a touch on the arm at the height of a girls laughter (would this work?).

As you can all tell by this overwhelming post my head is buzzing and I don't know what I should do. I feel that I can get any woman I want as a partner but I would also like to slay some Princess' before I make someone my Queen.


Thanks.

Keep doing what you're doing. Try not to think too much about technique etc when you're in a set. Analyze your sets at some point later on. As you've learned you don't need to keep a woman in a set through a bunch of seduction phases or whatever to have her interested and wanting to see you again. Have fun.
Her intuition tells her that you have these awesome things going on. Reveal them to her over time, like peeling an onion. Hold back on most of it until you've had sex with the girl. At least play down some of it.

Every dude out there is extolling his accomplishments and stuff to her and quite frankly as you mentioned they don't care about that shit for the most part. They care about how you make them feel. This is driven by how you feel about yourself.

Awesome thanks for the info.

Well I feel pretty great about myself so that will generally be the energy that I give off.

Out again tonight for some more practice, I can't wait.