Hello PUA Forum,

My name is WINTERS I am in my early 20s and have just begun within this past month to hop aboard this crazy train that has since absorbed myself almost every moment of the day. Not just to pick up women, as I never had too much difficulty in that department, but to refine my game inside and out.

It all started by looking up YouTube videos on dancing, which led me to Seductive Instinct by Arash Dibazar. Ever since I've been watching his videos and delving more into the art of seduction. I'm currently halfway through Neil Strauss' The Game and have the Mystery Method on its way. Along with that I've been studying kino Escalation, mid-game, opening, closing, and everything that encompasses game. I've even been looking into NLP for extra kick in my game as well as the October Man Sequence out of curiosity.

What I do want to learn is how to handle these bad girls with sexual appetite and a need for attention. I've attracted several of them in my life. I have the look of an Alpha but not the attitude, inner works, etc. of one. In truth I have a very good start on my own but no formal education on any of what I've talked about. That way I can meet women and select the one I most connect with on my terms and establish a committed long-term relationship b/c in the end THAT is what I am after.

I would ask for those of you who would qualify yourselves as a PUA to provide any guidance for myself. What would you tell yourself TO DO or NOT TO DO when you were at the beginning stages such as myself right now. Recommended reading material and everything else. I want to acquire as much knowledge as possible.

Thank you in advance.

Read one book. Study one method. Go out until you master it. Find out it's flaws. Improve upon the method and fix the flaws.

Do not waste time bouncing around, it only stunts your growth and confuses you.

Smarter guys struggle more in Seduction. You need to learn to not think.

Everyone fails. No one is ever perfect. You will mess up when it matters to you. The question is not if you will fail, the question is how you will handle it. If you mess up, keep going.

No PUA, man, natural or player is better than you. They spent their time becoming good with women. You enjoyed your life and gained new skills and experiences. Due to your life experience, you will become better than them.

Off the top of my head, this is my Game wisdom. I hope you learn something from these ramblings.

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If you're into dance and club game (I think you mentioned that's the type of videos you were watching), I'm not the guy to ask...

But I could tell you to focus on one thing - as a beginner: just approach the fuck out of everyone and flirt with everything that breathes.

The more quickly you become comfortable socializing and talking to girls (or even people in general), the faster you'll see results.