Hi all,

You can call me Ess-P or "SP". I'm 29 years old with a stable job as a product designer. I'm a very active and athletic guy.

Started sarging years ago and have been very successful getting dates through Neil Strauss's advice. These dates can go on forever and turn into several meaningless relationships. I'm getting a little older now and finding that although getting numbers and dates are a breeze for me, I am bad at dealing with long term meaningful relationships. So this is why I am here and reading through this forums have helped me deal with some predicaments with some good advice!

FYI, Currently dealing with a specific relationship where I made my 23 YO girl chase me for 7 months. She wanted to be my gf 3 months into talking but I told her I wasn't ready. Now that I am folding, and realizing that I want to be with this girl, she has been backing off. We are like a Bf/gf and do everything that bfs and gfs do but the tables have turned after 7 months - now I am constantly chasing, and she's constantly negging. Need to get my mojo back !

-Ess-P

Welcome to the boards! It's definitely balance when being in a relationship. You generally want to have a slightly higher "status" than her, but have to learn to give and take. When you started chasing her, she knew she had the power and is trying to hold onto it. Just break rapport with her and get her to invest in you. Keep gaming man!

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