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| mcngorilla | PostPosted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 2:24 am | |
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Posts: 1 | | Hi, I'm new to the forum and I'm looking for how to be confident. I'm somebody that tries his best to look good (dress well, work out, eat well, take care of my appearance) but I am having a lot of trouble finding women. ppl tell me I care too much about what others think, which is true. I was in a relationship for three years and since that ended two years ago I've only been with one other girl. I have a very low self-esteem and I am looking for ways to be confident, social, and happy. What can I do to portray confidence and attract women?
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| Playboi_ | PostPosted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 2:31 am | |
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Location: kIlladelphia | | Don't portray it....BE IT! You are 24. How long do you want to waste through your life and not DO WHAT YOU WANT?! You will be 50 and think "damn, I should have actually done what I wanted, said what I wanted." You will get a lot of people that hate you and love you to two extremes. Fuck em all as long as you are living how you want bud. You cannot be loved without being hated on another level by some. Those are people you do not need to concern about. _________________ FREE Confidence Ebook:https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/487644
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| Mastermind9000 | PostPosted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 4:00 am | |
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Posts: 496 | | Want confidence, do cold approaches... Even if you suck at it.
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| ConfidenceMatters | PostPosted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 4:22 am | |
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Posts: 269 | | Getting out of a relationship can be tough. Game is just like any other hobby. You have to use it or you'll lose it. Maybe work on your self-esteem a bit more. Are you happy with where you are in your life? If so then, like the other posters have said, just get into it by doing cold approaches and just keep at it for a while. Even hit up ugly chicks. Do anything to make yourself feel better really. Then work your way up.
Hope this helps.
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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
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