| Brief history - 32 year old doctor.
Main reason for starting this research is not to improve getting laid, though that will be a cool benefit. I dont have trouble getting laid.....its just never the ones I want. I have probably slept with over 100 women, but most of them werent goodlooking. The internet women are the easiest...if you can get them to respond to you its almost a done deal. If you can get them to meet you, its probably 95%. But the ones who respond are usually waaaaaaaay below your league. I have to take them to places no one I know will see us.
Id say I probably organically sleep with a chick I would take out in public or actually date, twice a year. I think that is probably on the low end, yeah? (How many would you say for you?)
At first I thought it was because I had messed up teeth. Got braces, game didnt improve.
Then I thought it was because I wasnt built. Went to the gym, game didnt improve.
Then I thought maybe I was one of those people who think theyre much better looking than they are. This could be true for sure. I think Im an honest 6.
But at the end of the day you will consistently see dudes with alot of game pulling the hotties, no matter what they look like.
I remember I used to roll with this one dude. We would go to hooters and he would just RUN THROUGH the place. They would fight over him and not consider me....though he was just a little cuter than me. I was built, he was very skinny. He also worked retail and I was a doc (Im not saying thats bad, Im saying that he was just crushing me even though I had some sizeable advantages). This kind of opened my eyes to what is possible and that I have an area of my life sorely in need of improvement.
The tipping point was the year before graduating school, I would go out and always think "why is that chick with THAT dude?" Over and over again. I was built, on my way to being a dr, not ugly, and smart. Something is just missing. This is my journey to fill in that spot in my education. I highly suspect its a lack of likeability as I dont have many friends (I had a bunch in college but now I only have a few. Multiple social circles to pick from when creating my weekly calendar are a thing of the past for me. I miss it.)
Ive gotten some rudimentary education from the internet that Ive incorporated this week which has already made me see vast improvements such as just actually APPROACHING multiple groups instead of sitting at the bar with your own group. Opening in a way so it seems natural. Just using these very basic concepts has shown me what can happen if I study this closely. I am very impressed at the genius that has gone into all of this.
I am not interested in making this apart of my life and picking up women every night at the bar, but Im sure as shit making it my goal to study this for a year, approach and open so much it becomes easy, and increase the caliber of woman I attract.
Got "the game" and "the mystery method" in the mail now. Im excited guys! Heres to learning and growing with you this year.
*raises glass*
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