Hi guys!

I'm Jonathon Peck, a 22 year old male from the Netherlands. I'm not a goodlooking guy, but I have a nice smile and my personality makes up for the most. My roommate introduced me into this (forum) community and recommended me to read "the game", because he was aware of my 'problems'.

First of all, I'm not a shy guy. Not at all. I'm a student pedagogics, which means you have to be a social person. And that is what I am. From my group of friends, I know how to handle in different social situations best (including random chitchat with girls). Except for one situation: the one I am flirting with girls.

This wasn't always a problem for me. I had some good times in the club or at bars, making out with women all I wanted, but I lost it somehow. Since I broke up with my girlfriend 2 (!!!) years ago, I haven't been laid and, what bothers me most, I freak out when I think about flirting with girls. I chicken out when I notice that a girl is flirting with me. I think I'm afraid of being rejected by girls, because I'm not good enough. (FYI: My girlfriend fucked her "best friend" and cheated on me several times, which basically ruined my self esteem).

I've set some goals I want to achieve. I want to get over my anxiety and be able to flirt with girls. Just talking the good way and making out with them. Getting laid as much as I want or desire is not my goal (yet). I hope that I can find some really good tips on these fora and you can provide me with some good techniques.

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