What's up dudes?

I joined this forum to learn mid game and closing techniques. I recently moved to SC and,as I don't have problems talking to chicks (openers), I'm struggling keeping them engaged, building rapport, and closing.

I live in a small city were everyone knows almost everyone, and the girls here seem to go for the same type of guy. Which I'm not. The girls here like the CSG (conservative southern gentleman). Which again, I'm not.

I'm Hispanic and a overweight; but I know I have a good sense of humor, a great job ($), very clean, active, and I dress well. I'm currently going to the gym and playing outdoor sports to lose the 50 lbs. I need to get to "ideal" weight for my height. So I definitely don't fit the CSG look the girls around here seem to fall for.

Anyways, I'm done ranting about me. I'm about to dive in,learn and get creative.

Any tips about being a big guy that still can pick up women please feel free to let me know.

ZO-Z

It is all Confidence and Game.

There is some merit to dressing to get the girls you want.

I wont lie and say that looks do not matter, but it is in some level a numbers game when opening, so if less girls like you, keep working on yourself and open more.

I am a bigger guy and have physical flaws, but I routinely pull girls who would 'never date a guy like me' or 'sleep with a guy like me'. I love pulling girls 'who only date black guys' or 'only date great looking guys' or 'only date rich guys' because the girls can't even believe they are so into me.

You can do it. Keep working at it.

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