| Hello, I'm a 19 year old virgin. My first kiss was two weeks ago, and it came along with a 2nd and 3rd base. I read LOTS of stuff on here. My inner game is very good thanks to a professional who has been helping me for the last couple of months. But I still feel clueless about pickup. Back before my coaching process (note: this isn't directly related to pick up, but rather, to social skills generally) I was too nervous to even talk to girls. Now I am very confident, I can get my self in "hyper mood" and suddenly become someone who doesn't care at all about reactions I might get. Sort of like "fuck it, I'm doing whatever I want".
My problems are:
A. I'm able to get to this "hyper mode" only at night clubs, bars, parties. During the day I'm just an AFC, during the night, in high energy situations, I'm an ALPHA. A few weeks ago I was at a costume party, my friend was sitting at the bar and I basically winked to and waved at ANY and EVERY person in the bar. Everyone assumed that I'm part of a different group when I was basically alone. 2 girls slapped my ass and others touched my boobs (I was dressed up as a woman), while shyer girls just flirted with me. Had I not been afraid of touching girls, I would've banged that night. Now after having some kind of a sexual experience, I've completly concurred that fear of touching girls.
B. I've read so much pick-up material that I've become clueless about where should I even start! Saying "hi" to everyone in a mall isn't even a challenge for me, I need a bigger challenge. I plan on getting laid as soon as possible, ideally by the end of April. And I'd stop masturbating until I get laid, no matter what. When I'm horny I'm MUCH more eager to Game. But I need to have a plan, because once I walk up to a girl and say "Hi, how's it going? I'm Notepad" and shake hands, I don't really know what to do in order to have sex with her (and NOT be her friend or boyfriend).
Any insights? I think I need some sort of a 7-14 day program with actual missions to finish in order to motivate myself.
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