So I read the game in college and just never really got out of my shell. Fortunately there were a ton of beautiful smart young girls in my life everyday that I would meet in class. Now that I've graduated moved home there aren't nearly as many opportunities. I also have moved back in with my parents and at the moment hardly make any money so my confidence has taken a huge hit. Dates don't make me nervous, talking to women doesn't make me nervous, but approaching a hot girl shakes me to my core these days. Moving out is my top priority but I would at least like to work on my game a little so I can meet some new women once I do. I was hoping dating apps would help but I really want to learn to approach women properly. People are saying online that openers are dead, I wouldn't know because I haven't really had the courage to try it, so if that approach is out what's a shy man to do now? Every time I go to the bar, my friends buy me too many drinks and we just get drunk and gawk at women (yeah we're afc's now). I like talking to people but it's too loud in the bars around here to even communicate. How does game work when you only hear every third word.

Wow that was a depressing intro. Sorry!
Ross M.