Hey guys,
Whats up? Im a 23 year old college student who wants to learn as much as I can about this stuff. After spending most of my life being overweight(350+lb at this time a year ago), I never really had the self confidence to get girls and felt down about it a lot, especially when most of my friends always seemed to be naturally good at it. I ended up really getting interested in bodybuilding and its subculture out of nowhere and dropped about 70-80lbs and packed on decent muscle(im still chubby though, but keep getting asked if I play football now which is pretty cool but Im not stopping there) and feel great now, and now feel its time to finally get good at this pick up stuff. I discovered the pua stuff originally by finding and LOLing at the simple pickup videos on youtube with my one buddy. I then decided to buy The Game and The Mystery Method like most other people seem to do and a book on body language and got kind of hooked on this idea. Ive been going out to the malls and around campus going up to girls and starting small conversations here and there and I usually make them smile and laugh a bunch but thats about it. Ive been told Im a naturally good talker and quick witted and always have a great time talking to anyone but I usually wimp out and never try to get a number. I also kind of got the "oneitis" thing going on I guess lol and am in this weird "more than just friendszone" thing with her which Im not sure how to feel about it and I feel maybe this stuff will make me feel better. I would like to get good at this "game" and make up for what Ive been missing. Even if I made a few more female friends, that would be cool. Anyways, I cant wait to check out what this forum/community has to offer.
-bear
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