I live in Poland. I'm 19.
Passion?
- Webdevelopment (Combination of work and hobby - blessing),
- Old cars (Mainly polish classic cars, not american muscles. Oh, and Italian - beauty on wheels),
- In plans : traveling (crazy and wild, no vacation from travel agency) and learn play on guitar

'how you got into "the game"?'.. uhm.. i was looking on google for "how to escape from friendzone"
Then I find some polish PUA communities and now I want to have access worldwide knowledge, and improve my language skills. So you can criticize my opinions and my english too.

I more focus on Inner Game and Personal Development than pick-up methods because I believe that if you have attractive personality and good self-esteem, you don't need to think what opener you should use. You only approach and 'let it be'..

So my goal is form my inner self. I gave myself about 6 month for order things which I don't like and which I can change.
And you must know there is a lot of this shit

Now my story in a nutshell :

I first time fall in love at 15. In brief - I landed in friendzone, accepted being second and stay in this horrible place for.. three years! Now, when I look at those years I feel uhm.. mad, embarassed while laughing. Can you imagine having only online "Long Distance Relationship" with girl who live in next village? Hundred of hours spend on chatting online and when we OCCASIONALY met : "What the fuck I should say?" So she makes me 'her brother'. Even it is not surprised.

Happily I cured myself of her. Better late than never. Some time later.. THAT FEELING! AGAIN! My target? Younger girl who moved from nearby village to West Europe.. 1500 kilometers from me. I know what you think. Long distance relationships - not worth it. Maybe yes, maybe not. But I have three years of experience about it. Haha

She arrives for vacations, christmas and easter so It's not tragically. We have common friends, we met.. only in the group -.- And no. She's not my girlfriend too.. Why? Because I.. here is the problem.. no had balls for get my life in my hands.. So i didn't make any steps to push it forward even when I see that she is interested. She come back to her country - then we talk on facebook everyday. NO WAY! MAN! DON'T YOU REMEMBER LAST TIME? AGAIN YOU SHOW YOU'RE NEEDY! but.. in few months I never start conversation. Always she did it. And there was no crap like "you're my best friend", "i love you like brother" or something. Then she started to mention some guy. It is her friend "she love him but don't see it" and etc. I don't know. Maybe it was only for make me jealous, maybe it's something more. Then again, I felt this shitty smell.. smell of friendzone. I looked at this relation from distance and see that I'm was going on the road to the same hell as the last time. So i said STOP. I hope it is not too late. One month ago I totally broke contact with her. It is true that is the best way to get out or avoid friendzone? Disappear -> Grow up -> Come back as Maestro?

So I start my journey to a new and better me. I give myself time to easter/vacation 2014 when she arrive to Poland. I put all my chances on one card. Maybe she will make something with that guy and I lost her. I know it will be painful as fuck, but i know too that I will not die from that. But if she arrive as single, I'll go as a storm for what I want.

On what we will be working?
Self-esteem builded by eliminating complexes :
- put on weight (Now it's 48kg at 169 cm - very skinny boy )
- end home renovation (It's bad. I'm ashamed to invite someone)
- improve social life (End with be silent introvert)
- make some cash (you always need to have some)
- learn how to dance (why? because when i went to party, I can't dance, I can't talk with girls so.. i finished with alcohol try to impress with consumed amount -.- yes. I know. Silly as hell..)
- improve style - clothes, appearance etc.

What I've already done?
- Switch off from boy who spends all nights on computer, browsing facebook 416 times daily and waking up in the afternoon to morning bird who wakes up at 4:44 AM! It was hard.. And checking facebook only for maximum 10 minutes at 5:00 AM. three times at week!
- I not drinked alcohol from 28 September - over 2 months. Sounds like the confession of an anonymous alcoholic, right? Haha. I know that I return to drinking, it's only reseting bad habit, but.. I WILL NEVER AGAIN TRY TO BREAK RECORDS and try to impress someone. I managed to beat some records amd then realize that no one bat an eye . It's not worth wasting your health.. so only low dose for fun!
- I do not walk hunched
- And most important - I set up my mind on changes

so hello!

Late reply, but that was an interesting read man.

I spent about a month in Poland this year over two trips and I'm keen to visit on future occasions, so it would be cool to be in contact with a guy who sounds quite similar and with a similar mentality.

We can wing each other next time I visit