This is my first time joining the PUA forum and would love to introduce myself. Afterwards if anyone has thoughts on my situation I would very much appreciate some!

I will be going by the name GingerLove, last year I was the king of my domain, I could have any girl I wanted by walking into any club in the area i lived in, I made myself a reputation and that's where my problems started.

When I moved back to Toronto I found that there are a lot of much more difficult game as well I had not needed to use game in a while because of the lineup of girls in my previous town.

An old Co worker from before I moved away added me on facebook and we started to catch up and things went slightly sexual.

Today we met up at a bar and danced had a good time. I had my friend (who I was hoping I could set up with another girl, but decided he was not in the mood) and every time she would give another guy attention I would "punish" her by pretending I didn't notice and just having a great time dancing.

My friend challenged me to get a kiss close. The reason I am on here is because this is the first time I have gone out in moths and I fear I have fully lost my game. While we still danced and got a lot of kino going on, she kept on going for free drinks from every guy, then we would laugh at them, while on the inside I was not impressed.

Me and my friend had to go help with a family emergency while she was off getting free shots, so I texted her I had to go. She called me when I was half way back, and told me to call her later to let her know things are alright.

I think I made a mistake by coming back after to let her know that things were alright as well I had a few friends who were supposed to meet me there. (after I dropped my other friend off, in case he would be stuck as a third wheel again) I saw her flirting with another guy at the bar and instead of doing the alpha thing I decided to text her I don't want to cockblock so I am dippin again.

I hope to see her again tomorrow but I am not sure if I can pull it off.

On one hand we only started talking a few days ago, but on the other this is the one weekend I have the place to myself. (now that I am living with my family again)

If anyone has advice please help a fellow man.

Thank you ahead of time!

-GingerLove

Oh if it helps she an is HB 8 on my scale

You know how it goes, the game is constantly changing, a growing thing, but at the same time its like riding a bike, you might get nervous the first time you get on it after so long, but you never forget how to ride it.

As for that girl, being so close and losing it always feels like shit, but no need to get oneitis over this girl, especially if she wasn't respecting you enough, then you give even less shits about her, leave her waiting on the phone for you, make her your last priority, because in the end she'll be just another one in your stack of number to call up for a good time.

Thanks for that help, it was a very calming though. You seem like a very intelligent guy, and I will definitely give some breathing space to make her jealous.

Do you think that this would be able to work within a day?

Since you are looking to make something happen for yourself this weekend I would not play any freezeout games or anything and take the shot with this girl; invite her for drinks tonight just you and her. You have nothing to lose.

Thanks for the help guys! I took your advice and she slept over the next day

-GingerLove

Awesome man! As you've experienced here in your situation w/ this girl, when in doubt, take the shot. What's the worst that could happen - nothing. What's the best that could happen - you found out