Hey all -- finally joined the forum after looking into PUA for several months. My wing and I are taking on the Style's 30 Day challenge and - DAMN - it is harder than I expected. And the self analysis cuts deep, yow.

There is so much material to internalize, absorb and practice that, though we're already on day 21, I feel like I'm only finally getting a hold of material from Day 10.

Anyway, my general sticking point, and one of the many reasons I've been checking out PUA strategies, is getting stuck in the dreaded friend zone. I can build rapport pretty well most of the time once a conversation get started but I just get stuck in the 2nd phase of Mystery's M3 sequence. And just feel like it is impossible to flip that seduction switch in myself let alone the attraction switch in my target. Rapport stage feels safe and I chicken out to go past it. Any advice would be appreciated.

I also have a really hard time approaching people I don't know, but I am getting better. I always feel like I'm bothering them... (LIMITING MIND NEEDS TO SHUT UP NOW!!)

Anyway, I'm looking forward to hearing about other PUA adventures. If you are in the Helsinki area and are looking to sarge PM me for real!