| I'm 30, black, American, and this isn't my first time messing around with the seduction community.
From age 18-21, I was a solider, and I enjoyed quite the dating life with dozens of different women. As it turns out, Caucasian women were very much into black men where I was stationed, but when I was stationed in a different location, my dating life dropped off dramatically.
At that point, I turned to the Internet for advice on how to get things back to where I wanted to be. Through that, I found out about Speed Seduction. I didn't get too far into studying it because I thought it was bunk.
With the exception of infrequent flings, I didn't regain momentum in the single life even after I left the military. Two years later, I returned to the seduction community and found that it had grown considerably. I studied various techniques and theories extensively, but I couldn't bring myself to try anything out because it all seemed kind of manipulative and bunk. Soon enough, I got to the point where I believed I didn't need to study or try out anything from the seduction community because my own personality and beliefs were more than enough to get the results I wanted. With the exception of podcasts from PUAs, I came to swear off anything related to the seduction community.
Fast-forward a few more years, and I experienced a rather serious depressive episode. Medicine, books, therapy...nothing helped it until someone suggested that I give hypnosis a try.The idea was that positive hypnosis could increase my confidence. I thought it was bunk, but decided to give it a try, so I pulled out an old Hypnotica audio recording I'd gotten during my seduction community days.
Much to my surprise, it was very effective in pulling me out of the hell my mind had become.
I'm feeling better than I have in a long time, and I want to learn more about NLP/Hypnosis not only for the sake of seduction, but for myself. I want to learn more about self-improvement, and I want to better my quality of life. I think I've finally found something that works...and it's shame that I'm just now realizing that actually interacting with community and trying out things I learn from it might've been why I never advanced in seduction.
Well, I'm ready now, and I know it'll be an absolute honor to get to know all of you.
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