So I've been curious about this whole pick-up thing for a few years, and since I may be moving to Japan soon I figure I may as well dive on in and ask questions.

First of all, I am a lesbian and I was curious if the whole "game" and "rules" work the same for someone like me? Would I be able to approach a girl with the same attitude and techniques recommended for guys and still get laid? Secondly I'm a virgin so I have some confidence issues stemming from that whole "complex". And finally, since I'm probably moving to Japan soon, do you guys have any advice on how to pick up girls there?

The sexual energy of a lesbian female is different. However, the same attraction switches are present, men and woman alike are attracted to value

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I see. Most of my problems seem to stem from lack of ability to escalate and the anxiety I get worrying "oh will she reject this advance" etc.

I have the same problem myself with physical escalation. The reason I memtioned men and women are attracted to value is because they are different sexual energies. A man tyoically has masculine pole and female a female pole pf energy. Now logic tells me that a lesbian would likely have a sloghtly more masculine pole of energy, perhaps more balanced.

Read this thread, I took a bisexual girl home, and failed to succesfully physically sexualize and escalate. A few great guys posted amazing tips about physical escalation....I was scared shitness.

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Read what thr gentlemen say, very useful.

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When you do the right thing, you will be shocked at the things that will happen in return. When you do the right thing, it always comes back.

Well I'm not SUPER masculine. But I spend a lot of time with guys (I grew up without any female friends) and I prefer girly girls most of the time (no gross super butch girls for me).

The fact that you find girly girls super attractive shows you have a slightly more masculine emergy, dont be i sultrd its just who you are. Opposites attract, you prefer feminine wen so you have a more masculine energy, although it may not be clear. Much of our life is unconscious.

Do you condider yourself a girly girl?

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When you do the right thing, you will be shocked at the things that will happen in return. When you do the right thing, it always comes back.

Not really. I don't really wear make-up and I wear boy's clothes. Not that I'm butch or one of those gross bull-women who hate men. I'm just too lazy to put that much effort into my appearance.

Well then miss, you have masculine energy.

I suggest reading The Way of The Superior Man.

And def check out that thread i posted it has great escalation tips

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When you do the right thing, you will be shocked at the things that will happen in return. When you do the right thing, it always comes back.

uum if i may join in, i think that by being a lesbian your job is much easier than if you were a man. what i say is, picking up is based on a girls intent to try something different. ok you'll have a hard time finding a gf, but you can easier get their attention

You'd be surprised elenchos.