Hello evryone, im a 22 year old dutch guy, im going to the gym 2 to 3 times a week and im pretty good looking sportswise. Im comming from a medium to small town that has about 2 or 3 decent clubs/bars.

Right now iv'e been watching and reading pickup stuff for about a month or 2 and the reason i have started reading about this is because 4-5 years back i used to have girlfriends through school and my old friends, but afther i moved to another town i dont have those easy ways of reaching girls anymore and my current study also doesnt bring much since it barely has any girls on it. And im one of the very few guys of my class that actualy goes out partying from time to time.

So yes im gonna need to improve to become better at picking up girls in bars/clubs for longer relations (im not realy looking for 1 night stands) when going out. Because even though im looking fine it didnt realy go anywhere long standing yet, my main problems are that half the ppl at my local bars already know me and sometimes try to block me when i talk with a girl, also i still rely to much on alcohol, and i find it hard to have a decent conversation with more then half of the girls i meet. Not to forget when i do kinda bad with a girl at my local clubs, it can sometimes have very negative effects since ppl stay at these clubs most part of the night, and there is a high chance that they are there again on the next week and the next aswel.

Now yes there are bigger towns around at 1h travel distances where you will mostly meet only new girls but its allot of trouble to go there since holland has pretty bad traveling times during the night forcing you to stay in town till 6 or 7 in the morning while most stuff closes at 4 or 5 including the snackpoints (and taxi's are super expensive on long distances). So my friends are not realy enthousiastic to go to those towns already, and you dont want to end up alone at the station waiting for 2 or 3 hours till that train or bus finaly leaves the station to home.

I will most probably be having some questions on these forums to see your guys views on some of these points i just mentioned. And i will be sharing some of my funny/odd/good/bad experiences from my past happenings with you guys hoping to bring some new insights from my side of game aswel

So welcome to you guys from Venidos