I live in LA and I go out a lot. I have no trouble going up to girls and saying random shit or making fun of them. About half the things that the seduction community recommends doing, I already do naturally.

I meet lots of girls, but they're mostly boring.

Sometimes, I get into the "creep zone" which totally blows. I want to learn to avoid getting into that zone. Also, I'd like to learn how to drive girls nuts in bed - I've done it before with very few girls and I know that there must be a psycho-behavioral pattern involved...

Also, this kinda freaks me out... Different women's vagina's look different. Sometimes, I get a girl's pants off and then her vagina feels, smells, or looks funny and I get turned off. At least 3 times, I've passed on having sex with a girl because of this.

Cool A fellow SoCal PUA thread..

There's a vast majority of guys out there that feel your pain.. I am also a perfectionist (ok maybe a stickler for these sort of things) when it comes to where I'm poking my cock. You just have to face it.. A woman's vagina will not always look the same. Their as distinct as fingerprints.. But it's not necessarily a bad thing..

My suggestion? Smell the punani.. Do a finger check while you focus on the other assets.. Or just go check out some porn sites, and get over it..

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Payne, I think you gotta get over it dude. Most chicks aren't perfect down there. But when it comes to it smelling, there IS something you can do. Tell her you want to take a shower with her. While you're lathering her up in the shower, bend her over and wash her pussy. Stop crying about imperfect punani. You should be lucky you're even getting any!
About driving girls nuts in bed, what I've always found to be helpful is giving her a couple drinks to relax. Then she'll lose most of her inhibitions and let you get away with more (tugging her hair, giving her a smack on the butt, fingering her a$$, etc..) And ALWAYS say something in her ear or tell her how good she is (EVEN IF SHE ISN'T THAT GOOD). Thinking she's turning you on, turns HER on. The less inhibited you are, the better. That's why you have to let go of your hang ups.

I like to do the belly button test when I'm not sure about what kind of pussy to expect. It involves kissing, licking and nibbling from the neck down to the belly button. If you can smell her pussy before the bellybutton, and you know you don't like it, turn right back around and come back up to her lips. Then do what Gameboy said and ask her to shower with you.

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