I’m 21 year old AFC, live in England, moved here about 2 years ago, English is not my first language, above-average intelligence. Never had any relationships with girls (not even a kiss), my father was really bad role model, I was the eldest of my siblings so there was no older brother to show me how to ‘play The Game’ and I ended up like this.

As soon as I came to England I started going out with a group of friends and after couple months I became a part of it. They were quite experienced with picking up but still, just beginners. They've lent me the first PUA books I've ever read ‘THE GAME’ and ‘THE NATURAL ART OF SEDUCTION’. Although I knew the basics of the game I've never used them because of my lack of confidence and approach anxiety (I think I am not good looking enough), just thinking about opening a set, scared the hell out of me…
As time goes by, I feel more depressed. I'm not completely dumb and I can notice what I am doing wrong but the thing is, I don't know how to change.

The first thing I am thinking about when I woke up is how bad my life sucks, but not because of not getting laid, I think it’s because I’m a looser in general and that is the root of every failure in my life. As far as I know, being-PUA is to be confident and successful in life and these are things which attract women. So if you have any-kind of advice for such pathetic AFC as me, I would be grateful.


I’m sick and tired of being Mr.Nice Guy.
M.Ridz

You are definitely starting in the right place! Welcome to the community bro! Stick with it and you will see the results that you want!