Hi, I'm teals, your average 18 year old AFC, I am still a virgin and have had a hard time meeting new girls (let alone getting their interest). I heard about "The Game" and got myself a copy. So far I'm only 200 pages in but I felt it was time to go to the club and give it a shot.
My first night at the bar there was a foam party so I wore a ridiculous spandex rowing onesie and baby blue head band (my attempt at peacocking). To my surprise I was finally getting girls attention. My first opener was with a 5, (to build confidence). I used an opinion one about the outfit, talked for 30 seconds then asked her to dance. After a couple minutes I looked at her and asked if she wanted to kiss me, got I dunno as an answer so I took it as a yes, my first k-close at the bar. After this said goodbye and went to find my friends. Tried same routine on 4 more girls, and it worked on a blond 7, then a brunette 7, other two shut me down pretty fast, within first min, boyfriend excuse.
Finally I decided to go with a new approach and pretended as if I thought this brunette 8 was someone I knew. After she said she wasn't her she asked why I thought she was, told her she was brunette and really pretty just like her. She laughed, asked me to dance, she wanted to 2 step (no idea how) so I gave it my best and asked her if she wanted to kiss me. She was hesitant, but with persistence and a big smile I got my fourth k-close of the night, after this I decided to go home, in shock basically of how easy all that was.
However successful my night was I didn't get a single number because I was afraid and not sure how to ask.
The next day my buddy jacks, who had told me about the game and came to the bar with me last night suggested we go at it again. This time regular club, I wore jeans and a grey t-shirt, not dressed for the club.
Once inside he sent me to a 2 set, short cute blonde and her quite friend, I talked to them then their step bro showed up, was friendly to him at same time keeping attention on me. Negged alpha blonde about her lipstick, got brother and friend to notice and laugh. After that ran out of material and decided that I wasn't going to win this set.
Next set I was sent into was 4 older (25-30), I was instantly shut down before I could get one word in.
My spirits were low but jacks sent me into a 3 set of 21 year olds, blonde 7, brunette 8 and blonde 5. I opened with opinion on my lazy outfit, as soon as I was running out of material jacks came in and helped, he isolated the brunette 8 so I went for blonde 7. She joked about how young I was, called me a baby, so I accused her of being a cougar, we laughed. Danced with her for a while then asked if she wanted to kiss me, she kissed me on the cheek and told me that's how to kiss a baby, I smiled and stared at her lips for a bit then went for it. After a while I asked told her we had to go and asked for her number, got it, first number close!
Now I dunno how or if I should text/call her.
Either way I learned a lot and plan to work on getting better. Any feedback on improvements I could make or any questions would be greatly appreciated, thanks for reading, I'll post about next weekend, see if it was dumb luck or I am starting to figure it out.