Hey guys not sure how this thing works . However all I'm wondering since new to everything. I'm a pretty decent looking guy. Most girls Tell me they think or believe me as a player because of how I look(How I know this is I ended up dating a couple for a long time, which in turn changed there view about me), even though ive only been in a few long term relationships and not into jumping chick to chick , I noticed a lot of girls have a guard or defence up because of how I look and i struggle to understand how to break them of it unless, I met them through a friend its a whole other story. Another thing I seem to attract the most unripe unhealthy girls whether its online or out in the world I draw in the filth and scare off the healthy pretty girls. i also notice before i even get the chance some girls will make it seem like there interested with nice eyes n smile and i'll say hi and they just give this ogre face and dont even talk. Not all the time but enough times, especially the Black girls white girls not so much. I'm all new to this so If anybody can help me and not reply with a bunch of attitude or stupid nonsense Id greatly appreciate it.