Hi guys!

I'm new here and I don't know how to go on: THere are so many books but I don't know which one to choose. I'm 26, virgin, student.
2009, I tried it with "Rules of the Game" but didn't succeed. Maybe because I can't tease/banter the right way.
Someone told me I'd be socially awkward.
Here's my view: I don't know what to talk about. I don't have fear of rejection. I often say "Hi!" but don't know further. Once I even said this to a girl who asked me, that I should have thought about this before! Therefore, I think about what to talk with a woman/girl before I approach her. I can't make people laugh, but have a sense of humour. A guy told me, I'd have a black humour and my kind of humour would be silly.
Else, I don't know what to talk about with anyone.

Once, I was standing in front of a MILF/Cougar in a club. I had stepped mistakenly on her foot and excused for this. She said, it'd be ok. We watched at each other for several seconds, til I watched at her friends (one hotter than the other!). I just didn't know what to talk about!
It's curious: When I go to clubs, I'm amazed how guys and girls talk to each other amused. For me, it hasn't been possible til yet to do so as well.

I have problems to get into transition. Mostly it's a Q/A. I ask and she answers. If I can make it to get in transition, it's more small-talk/chit-chat nothing romantically, I fail in attraction and gotta seen as nice guy.

I don't know further.



I hope you can help me. Thanks.

memorize a bunch of openers use whomever you like. mystery.. neil strauss,, gambbler...have at least 5... write out the possible replies...practice them in the mirror..use a lot of gamblers stealth attraction..and just go out to mall or where ever and practice them.... practice practice practice....in your openers use an adjective to describe the way you want her to be... you seem cool..hot....sexy...i bet you're...

I live in Germany.

Thx. Canned material is still legit? I've heard, in 2013 routines wouldn't work any more.
Something like "Routines Manual" ? 5 to memorize. OK. My main problem is transitioning and attraction.

I don't have Stealth Attraction. Will Gambler's "The Natural - How to effortlessly attract the women you want" work as well?

I've read that Stealth Attraction is rather for the intermediate/ advanced guy who had already success with women.

UPDATE: I admit that I'm socially unsucessful. No real friends (just some who want me to proove their DHV) I have to commit that I'm too cocky sometimes and I think I'd be the greatest, don't seek approval.
Can I use Push-Pull and how to learn it?