Hello all!

Honestly, I don't know whether to describe myself as "new" or not. Here's the deal: I'm 41, in the midst of a divorce from my wife of 17 years, haven't been on the dating scene since 1994. Before I met my wife, I dated a lot in high school and college, so I didn't used to have any problems meeting girls. Back then, I never thought of it in terms of "running game."

That was then.

Now, I'm older, not as fit and trim as I used to be (how many middle-aged lawyers are?), I have kids, the divorce is wrecking the cash flow, et cetera. So the old rules, well...who knows? I'm not just going to naturally attract the girls like I used to in college. So I'm kind of hoping to learn some new skills to help overcome the fact that my younger, thinner self has flown the coop.

And the truth is, I'm not really interested in monogamy anymore. I've BEEN monogamous, for decades, and at the end of the day I wound up getting laid less in the last four years than I would have if I was single. So I'm hitting the gym, moving out and moving on, and working on different ways of meeting and attracting the ladies.