ok so im college and I have made much progress with girls. at first i couldnt even talk to any girl because I was scared. since then ive upped my fashion and people skills. Girls like talking to me. Now Ive hit new stumbling block. Ive been moving fast with girls and ive been getting girls to agree to go out with me. I go out with them and talk and ect and things seem to be good.we have great convo. But what am i suppose to do after I take them out the first time? Im trying to get them in bed fast. Ive taken alot of girls out but no sex has happened.( I didnt pay BTW) Do I take em out on a 2nd date then hope I get sex then? or should I invite them over to watch a movie immediately after we go out the first time? In addition should I be clear on what exactly this outing is? Should I call it a date or should I just say hey lets hang out? Am I not being sexual enough in terms of interaction when out with girls?

Below are some advice I have for you brother...

- Try to make it look like it's NOT a date, that it's just "hanging out".
- Pay for them when you go to the restaurant or movie theatre, but don't tell them before. Make sure it's spontaneous.
- Do the "wiper method", which consists of giving attention when she NEEDS it, and not giving her attention when she WANTS it. Make sure to differentiate NEED and WANT.
- No "spam" texting, emailing or phone calls.
- Stop focusing on getting laid, focus on HER. Focusing on her WILL get you laid.

Hope those helped !

in what other ways can I focus more on her? When im hanging out with these girls I try to keep the focus on them and not me. I dont mention my achievements or anything. Its all about them. and I only talk about myself when they ask me.

another thing, as for the txting and phone calls like i said here is my strategy. I dont text or call unless im tryng to make plans with them. I want to make my intentions very clear with these girls I want to make things easy for them since they get bombarded with txts form guys every day. heres an example of something i might send a girl:

"hey (random girl) whats up...so whats your schedule like this week? lets grab some starbucks?"

then we set up the outing, no long winded txt exchange


lastly can you explain the wiper method a little more? example?

You should be upfront and straightforward with her.

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