Hello i'm primus

When i first started to pick up girls everytime ended the same FRIEND ZONE because i was to kind to them but it is also my nature to be kind so i still have problems with that. So when i got desperate my sister told me about mystery so i said why not read the books and after reading them i thought to myself why not put the knowladge to the test but i was afraid of rejection so first day i came to the club i froze,seckond day same third day got a little better and i even made through the opener and everything, but from this point on only 2 scenarios happen either she put me in the friend zone or i naged to much and lost all interest so after 0 improvement i said to myself this isn't working and just stopped and throw myself into studyes but now after a year i've decided to tryagain and the same thing happened so i started searching the net for advice and this is how i got to this forum hoping to get some knowladge how to do it right.