Hello PUA's

I'm new to this whole PUA stuff, but Red is a good friend of mine who told me to check out the game. As I read my first reaction was, "holy Christ on a cracker, did I write this book and forget about it?" It is a fascinating, and in my case accurate, analysis of the nervous male mind. So I read on.

Currently I'm about 25% of the way through and have begun to start my cheat sheets and making notes about what I like and don't. (Red- I'm not marking up the book so don't worry)

Anyway in an attempt at full disclosure these are the things I'm working on.
1. "Why do I feel this ridicules obsession with being a nice guy, even if I pull the cocky-funny on girls I feel like I should apologies."

2. Although I generally feel comfortable around women. I get nervous at the most unexpected times (i.e. five min into a conversation, or when I should be getting-- a number, kiss, bj).

3. I've been ushered in the bff category for the last time, FUCK THAT!

4. I'm a pretty big dude, 6'3'' ~235lbs, but I feel meek sometimes.

So that’s the deal, I’m currently stuck in my hometown for Christmas/new years as I-70 was closed but will be sarging up Denver shortly.

Hooks

Hey Hooks,
The idea of most of these "Guru" guys is to make you a BETTER guy. A mans man. Nice has nothing to do with it, and everything to do with it. Your going to become a gentleman, with skills.
And never think you have to appoligize for flirting. Women will do it to you and never think twice about it. Its in their DNA. Flirting is being playful, funny, and creative. And women will see this for what it is and see that you are smarter then the beer swilling drunk who walks up and asks for sex.
Practice and enjoy life. Its all good.
Hoch