Having only read this thread and not understanding what your trying to do in life other than find a relationship - I can say this...

No amount of strategy or texting, or planning will accomplish what you're looking for. Bottom line is you have to be yourself, and waiting a month or whatever and trying to 'interpret' her response is setting yourself up for a game you'll never win, and really, why would you want too?

The only real tried and true strategy for getting back your ex is indifference and bettering yourself. I would be hitting the gym at least every other day and doing some cardio, finding one book you can read, or getting a college degree or whatever. Your not doing it to get your ex back or whatever, you're doing it to better yourself personally, and I think, when you do that, you'll be a much better person and all the other stuff will fall into place.