Im new here. I'm 34, live in indiana. Feel kinda wierd asking advice on girls considering my age, but I havent had good luck. I Wish I heard of this stuff in my early 20's, LOL.
I have some questions regarding my ex, but Ill leave it for another topic.

thanks

So get more specific what do you want from this forum ?

I want to regain my luck that I lost a while ago, hard to explain. Then again I wouldnt call it luck, we make our own luck. I want to rebuild my confidence, get my life back on track, stop being such a pussy in everything i do, be more of a man. To me pua is more than just girls, it's a lifestyle, but I don't want to be a superstar or anything, just someone people love being around..etc.

But working towards getting my ex gf back is a goal if it can be a good thing again. honestly it seems impossible at this point, but I haven't given up on myself yet and i do miss her. There was a lot of drama/conflict from family (both sides) during/after th breakup last year. Ive been the 'un-needy' guy and havent really talked to her much. she had contacted me on fb 2 months ago, and I blocked her (long story) then i saw her a few weeks ago, and i know she saw me. We did not display EC at all, but ever since then I feel that i should contact her. I mean, before I saw her i actually was fine with just moving on....you know? but for some reason Im missing her now, and theres a reason we saw each other imo....maybe she feels the same....my heart tells me it's a green light but procede with caution i guess. meaning she may still be upset over some things i did. Hoping she will forgive me. I owe her an apology anyway...whether she accepts it or not, it needs to be said imo. But even if she does feel the same , there are still issues with friends of mine about her. Maybe it will work out.

But if it's meant to be, i believe it will come together somehow.

It's just an emotional struggle not knowing what to say/how to say it...or when to say it without fearing more fire (figure of speech)

difficult situation as iam not sure why you broke up , ive just come out of a 6 yr relationship i fucked up at the beginning and went off with an ex i was very insecure then i also did it again a while later she found out about them both and i spent 5 yrs trying to make it right but to no avail , so you have to ask the question 1 is it worth fighting for , 2 how much of your self esteem will you loose , and you say you where ok untill you saw her that tells me that you had started getting over it , i don,t belie in fate if you live in the same town your likely to bump into each other occasionally , maybe its time for YOU , to work on yourself as a person , to look at your life and where you want it to go , and i don,t like saying this to blokes who have oneits but you might actually enjoy your self on your road of discovery