ive always been the kind of guy girls say they want but never go for
ive always been the man on the side while an AMOG gets the girl i like
ive always been the guy that got the "lets just be friends" speach
ive always been the guy that was never sure if i should make a move or not, then end up regretting it later because i could have had something
ive always been the guy that girls would complain to about thier problems, and i would never get any sort of apreciation from them for it
ive always been an AFC, not because i wanted to, but just because no one ever told me how to attract girls

i'm bouksie, and im trying to not be that AFC guy anymore
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i hope this didnt sound like too much of a downer

Welcome man to your new life, and the forum! Keep us updated on your progress. As a inner game thing to work on. Do this in the morning.

I'll never again be the kind of guy girls say they want but never go for
I'll never again be the man on the side while an AMOG gets the girl i like
I'll never again be the guy that got the "lets just be friends" speach
I'll never again be the guy that was never sure if i should make a move
I'll never again be the guy that regrets not doing things later
I'll never again be the guy that isn't appreciated by women
I'll never again be the AFC that doesn't know how to attract women

Say that several time to yourself and head out the door to sarge.

Cheers!

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Yah man its mostly a confidence thing, I`ve explained it to some buddies. Confidence to a girl (pardon the expression) is like fear to a dog.
The dog will bark at you but if you put ur hand out and let it see your not scared the dog will normally stop barking and sniff your hand, and might even let you pet it. If your confident with a girl, they will wonder wow.. what does he have that makes him so confident... and maybe she`ll let you "pet it" hahaha
Thats how I look at it.

OH! and welcome

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They've done studies, you know. 60% of the time it works, every time."

mate, you sound exactly like me - im sick of being AFC and im so glad i was refered to this website.

lets turn a new leaf shall we?

although, i still dont want to be the jerk girls go out with to get hurt, i still want to retain some respectability. If i suffer from oneitus but the love is mutual, thats enough....i'll drop the game for her

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Hi Bouskie. I liken AFC to any other disease out there. Admitting it is the first step, now the rest is up to you. Learn the material and practice your game. Even the pros you see in professional sports didn't get good overnight. Welcome!

I agree with ro7emode7; by affirming yourself in the morning, you help to build up your confidence for the day. That confidence intrigues them, and they assume that you've got worth, and that it explains your confidence. It's almost like a social proof - you're upping yourself, because you're interacting confidently.

You know how some people assume that something expensive must be high quality? Same concept, so remember that you have the power to turn your life around, and start charging more for yourself, buddy. You're worth it.

now is your time to change man. change yourself. bring out the PUA inside. baalls in your court. nothing is better than time in hte field.

welcome to the forum by the way