Yo fellas,

Ive got more of a relationship question here, so just going to get to the point. I've joined up for advice with a girl that's driving me crazy, and through my own actions, i drove her away, now i just want to get her back!

Background facts - we had been seeing each other for about 4 months, it was absolutely incredible, extremely intimate, it was like no effort was needed, we had a great match in personality and humour and what not, full of passion, a romantic kind of thing and we were both loving it.

All up until the point where I made a ridiculous, drunken mistake, and slept with another girl at a club in the last week of term (she saw me kissing her, and although i tried to push through the crowd to get her, I lost her and that other girl came and found me again).

She wouldn't answer calls, texts or anything, i managed to see her on the last day of term, and did what i could to explain it, then it was the holidays. Frankly, i was devastated! After the holidays, and terms back on, i bump into her again and she kisses me, seeming as if its almost as if its back to the start. Great!

My mates had seen her around campus and she said she wants it to be back on, but i have to make the move. So i asked her for a drink sometime at the weekend, to which I got a very enthusiastic response! But the day after, some absolute plank posted photos on facebook of me kissing another girl, of which she saw, now i'm back to the same situation, and feel bloody awful!

I don't know what's happened but after all this and since we have stopped seeing each other regularly i've suddenly become very nervous about the seeing her, and avoid her, which is the total opposite of what i want to do, all I think about is her!

I saw her last night at a big event, walking past to an event stand outside, she saw me and carried on out after asking where the bloody thing was, like i was a stranger! I could of stopped her, but because of the above, i didn't and left with my mates. I admit its all my fault and i'm an idiot for doing it, but I don't understand where this nervousness has come from, never had it before, just want to get back on form so i can fix things up!

Any advice?

Thanks in advance

Stu