hey im jose and i need to make a change in my life i after taking a look at myself my environment and my friends life and can see im missing out on "it" so from today onwards i work my way to becoming what i may in vision and i to you for advice and support

thank you

Hey, welcome. We all need to start somewhere don't we? Have you read any books yet?

I would personally start with David DeAngelo Double Your Dating to get an idea of everything. I started off with that and it gave me an insight into how the whole game works.

The you should read The Game. I'm sure almost everyone would recommend that one.

One other is 60 Years of Challenge. No bullshit and straight to the point information about quickly building sexual tension with a girl.

Hope this helps!

Hi Jose, even know reading books about any subject is never a bad thing as information= knowledge, I would like to suggest something else to do as well.


I suggest that you get some field work in as soon as possible, after all nothing beats experience. When i say "field work" I mean talking to women or a group of. Here's the thing though, I don't want you to try to seduce them or pick them up in anyway.

I suggest you approach them with extreme politeness and ask for their assistance/opinion. Ask them simple questions about what they like in men. Be honest, tell them you are new to the dating world and you would appreciate any advice. You can even say it's for a specific woman you are trying to win over.
( women tend to be nurturing) showing your vulnerability will surely get you some attention.

The main purpose of this is to get you use to talking to women, by not having any intentions other then to be friendly and inquisitive, you are getting valuable information as well as becoming more comfortable talking with women.

Because of your friendly state of mind and no intention to "pick up" there will be no anxiety associated with rejection. What I am saying is, you don't have to worry about being rejected, this will allow you be yourself. There is also the chance that some of these women will actually like you and make a move themselves on you! ( women like what they can't have)

If you do this with a positive effort and good work ethic, you will surely have more then enough information and confidence to start your own PU. You will feel very comfortable talking with all types of women and you will know what they like.



Field work! fortune favors the bold.

Good luck

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

thanks for the advice
im going to hit the ground running this weekend

Reading "The Game" Is a very good book to start off with. Good Luck im still reading it

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