Hey everyone!

I'm 20 years old and work as a waiter. I've had sex with 2 women in my life, hooked up (made out etc.) with 7. The vast majority of this 'action' happened in the past year of my life when my looks finally started to mature.

I take a very objective and scientific approach to myself and especially my ability to attract women. I'm obviously not extremely experienced and that's almost positively a result of being not extraordinarily attractive and a perhaps some flaws in my character I hope to work out.

I read 'The Game' senior year of HS and was obsessed with the concepts within it for a while. Not because I'm a nymphomaniac or anything like that but because to me the perspective of women is an entirely different way to approach my flaws and lay bare the problems with my personality so that I can fix them and become a better person. To me, the process of attracting a woman is the greatest adrenaline rush I've ever had and I want to perfect and discuss it with people at this point so that I can become better at it.

There's my intro but here's my question:

I have found a small amount of success adopting persona's from some movies. Most notably (because they adapt pretty well with my looks/personality type) I have incorporated the characters Sebastian Valmont and Amon Goeth (lol) from Cruel Intentions and Schindler's List respectfully in dealing with women.

The reason for this (if you've ever seen either movie) is because I feel much more comfortable having a soft voice when talking to women and not being so eager to engage in conversation. If you notice especially w/ the character in cruel intentions, he is never intrusive or eager or out of place. He does his own thing and because of what he does he gets women attracted to him. That's entirely the approach I want to have and I need help in perfecting it.

Now this entire thing might be a giant mistake and that's why I'm asking you all for your opinions on this approach. Movies obviously don't necessarily translate well into RL but if I adopt a little bit of these attitudes in my approach is that necessarily a bad thing? Does this attitude translate well in RL situations or do I need to gather a little more steam in the conversation?

I'd be happy to answer any questions that would lead me to become a better person and a better listener. I want to become better at this.