G'day everyone.

I am a 24 year old guy from Melbourne Australia.

I was referred to here by a friend who said this website helped him build more confidence and helped shape his game.

I am by no means a PUA at the moment. I am however, a person who wants to grow more confident and my friend recommended I get on here and read through a lot of the things that deal with anxiety and confidence.

A little bit of a back story about me:

I grew up an overweight guy, and even now I am still overweight. Currently I am hitting the gym 5 days a week in an attempt to sculpt a new thinner body (which would definitely help with my self-confidence).

I currently DJ in nightclubs, and you would think everyone who DJs is a confident person, but nope, not me. I am working on it though.

In regards to women, I have had a few one night stands. My last sexual partner was over 2 years ago. Most of my friends are in relationships. I am not. I want to be able to approach women with confidence. I'm one of those nice guys who seems to have a supernatural ability to become friends with girls - I zip straight to the friend zone. I need to tweak my behaviour so I become appealing to women as a lover not just a friend.

That is why I am here. To lurk and learn how to do so.