| Hi everyone. A little about myself...I'm 31 years old, and I have always been rather shy around women. But, they have always found me very attractive, so my looks have helped to land hookups and relationships.
I'm a relationship guy, and my goal for PUA is to apply it to strengthen my LTRs.
I stumbled upon the PUA world almost by accident. I just recently went through a breakup, in which I was dumped, and a search for answers led me to some PUA material.
I learned a lot about the mistakes that I had been making in my relationships, including this most recent one. I also became consciously aware of a lot of the things that I had subconsciously been doing right.
Unfortunately, I had learned how to treat women and handle relationships from movies and songs. I thought that as long as I treated them well and did whatever I could to make them happy, then everything would be great. I didn't realize that the things I was doing were actually conveying a message of weakness and neediness, and my relationships were failing because the women I dated lost respect for me.
I understand that now, and am committed to learning as much as I can about being a strong, attractive, dominant male, while unlearning all of the weak, unattractive traits that I had picked up over the last 31 years.
So that's why I'm here, and I hope I can learn a lot here and apply it to my relationships. Nice to meet you!
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