| Kharma - Nanaimo, BC
24 - Male
I just got into "The Game". I finished reading Neil Strauss' book "The Game" and have become hooked on the concept. I'm a knowledge addict. I prefer to know everything I can about a subject as it keeps it from getting dull. Learning new things every few weeks keeps the spice of the subject matter alive and allows me time to hone and perfect the items already learned. To be honest, I'm just about to go through a very transitory part of my life (I'm getting braces and having orthodontic work to reset my technical overbite - though it doesn't appear that I actually have one) which is why I'm focusing on improving all parts of my life that haven't been focused on over the past 23 years (I started being a flirt at 1 year old).
"How I got into the game" really is an assuming question. I haven't. I've had the occasional GF with the occasional F*buddy so I'm not all that green. Though consistency and the ability to close are what I've recognized as some of my primary areas of need.
I have really only started this over the past few weeks. I have 2 years to turn my life around, 2 years of the orthodontic work, 2 years to build myself up to be the best person that I can be. This just seemed like a logical addition to the equation. Up until this point, I've lived in a social bubble. A comfort zone that I've created, a series of normalities and expectations with myself in regards to my time, my social life (or lack thereof) and my social expectations. It was a false truth and something that i'm realizing truly needs work. My social circle involved primarily online interactions. I was a [video] gamer and that was my quite literally, 5-6 years of my life. I've decided to change that so here I am.
which pickup method(s) you like to use
I've read The Game and as a result, it's gotten me intrigued about Mystery's Method, Ross Jeffries, NLP, Stealth Attraction (Gambler), and Natural Attractions (Tim).
My hobbies/passions really are varied. Up until now, I'd say that it was gaming, the enjoyment of gaming, and enjoying the social aspect of gaming and interacting within the game. I have other interests like music, golf, tennis, boring stuff by comparison and things I do on the occasional basis What I see myself doing simply is changing games. I already knew that it was the social interaction that I enjoyed and played them for, so now it's a (not so) simple matter of transitioning into the physical and mental pick-up game, and enjoying the interactions that result out of it.
My goals are:
1. To be more comfortable in true social situations
2. To gain a high level of confidence outside of the bubble I have been living in over the past few years
3. To meet more women and enjoy my interactions with them more openly.
4. To improve my overall ability to socially interact.
5. Have fun with it.
As for stories, I have a few pretty interesting ones.
I once ran over a snail with my car.
Anyways,
Thanks guys for reading this and I look forward to the future conversations within the forums. _________________ Karma
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