My name is Xavi, I'm 17 and I've never kissed a girl. I live in Portugal, where the chicks' bitch shield is stronger than american ones'. But that's not an excuse.
When I was kid, I could talk to anyone, but my problem was that reached the friend zone all the time. Today, I can't talk to a girl without thinking ahead, like imaging that we're a couple or something.
My main problem is that I'm very very very very very shy, so I can't approach girls. The only way I have the balls is if I have an excuse like asking something or if they have the iniciative to talk to me first, or at least give me a hint.
Another problem I have is that I worry too much about how people is going to react if I say this or that.
I think I'm a decent looking guy, but even if I were ugly and fat, the game taught me that even those can get girls.
So I'm trying to fix this problem, but it's not being easy. I'm currently reading the Rules of the Game by Style, but I don't have enough balls to simply do the first mission, which consists in do a little small talk with 5 strangers.
Can anyone who has been where I'm now give some tips?
Thank you.

I'm Portuguese too

I hope by now your game has increased already..

Well, I guess you just have to set your mentality to "I don't care" and "SHE is the lucky one if she gets me"

that's the only advice i can give..

Try NLP on yourself.. PM if you need somethin

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Agreed with Ownsick.

The more you can adapt a "fuck it" mindset, the more success you will have.

Ultimately, you want to get to a point where you understand that there is realistically NOTHING she can or will do when you approach her that can hurt you in any way. If she rejects you, so what? She tells you to fuck off, so what? It's just some stranger who YOU don't even know and who doesn't know a fuck about you, projecting their made up judgments and perceptions on you.

You shouldn't give so much power to a woman just because she's attractive.

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