Hey, I am at University, recently I started a conversation with a girl I really like and because I didn't feel confident enough at this point to ask her for her number/if she was available etc. (She seemed quite timid and shy) I made some small talk and ask if she would read an essay that I had just wrote (She was doing the same question.) I thought this would be a good pretext for a meeting and give us something intelligent to talk about/get to know more about each other. She said "yeah." But then didn't show up to the class for a few days and when we did see each other she hardly looked my way let alone say anything to me. Is this an obvious hopeless case or do you think there is still a chance? Any suggestions to speak to hear with out awkwardness/embarrassment?

Jason-

sounds to me like the awkwardness is in your head mate. she didnt show up so you felt awcrawd next time you saw her so this reflected on her being awkward towards you. when you see her just go up to her and start chatting like nothing happened and if she blows you off again move on. dont attach exess meaning and dont let her treat you like a mug. iv met many woman who act shy to begin with but then turn out to be harpys.

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It's the familiar love-hate syndrome of seduction: "I don't really care what it is I say, I care only that you like it."

i would agree with low. It sounds like she doesnt dislike you. somthing must have come up at home or work ect and made her a little upset. Try to rekindle the flame by chatting to her, go and play the game but if she does blow you off then move on and remember that you are the prize and that theres plenty more fish in the sea.

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