Lets face it I feel as though that I am hopeless. I am said to be attractive, but nothing ever happens. I get laid by about two different women a year. That to me does not seem enough for my needs. I really need some direction. I have many incidents where I get the conversation going. But for some odd reason once I start talking to them I reach an altitude then take a nose dive and crash......... I need help from crashing the plane...... What should I say, what should I not say? is there some kind of method that I need to use? Am I coming off as too desperate?
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you are definetly not alone I thinking about being hopeless. Luckily you are looking in the right direction. I am too quite new to the pua life, but it has already changed my life or at least my outlook. And yes there are answers, and seems that you got a decent start if you arent afraid to open. Read up a ton of the recomended readings and search around here. Let me know if ican help and i will do what i can aswell

at least you are not starting from scratch, you have experience with women

now to start, think about what you have done to get laid and try to emulate it

as far as material is concerned, if you want to be a PUA, start out by reading the game by neil strauss, its the man bible, its not a step by step method, it lets you know what the lifestyle is about and it outlines what to do

after that you will have the basics of what is going on and i suggest reading either mystery method or magics bullets, they are essentially the same method but by different people

then read double your dating by david deangelo, very good material

you should be set from there, this is a long process, miracles wont happen overnight, you will need to go out alot and try different things and see what works and what doesnt

also you have to feel comfortable and confident doing it or you will be eaten alive

if theres anything else feel free to ask

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whatever ice said x2 haha welcome

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