Hey folks.

Very brief history: I'm 38, recently separated, was with same girl for 9 years, and now am clueless. Used to have great game in my 20's, got laid a lot, but I was high all the time back then. Now I'm not, and need real skills.

Been reading The Game, Mystery Method, and other PUA stuff for the last month and am getting ready to try some things, however, I wonder how well this stuff would work on women my age, or if it would work on girls in their 20's with me being older. I kind of get the feeling it might be different. I don't want to be creepy like Ross Jeffries.

So, any other 30+ sargers out there?

Nope we are all highschool kids! we live with our parents! and play computer games!

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

Hey, it seems like mostly a younger crowd, so I had to ask.

Perhaps I should rephrase my question:

Anyone have advice for a guy in his late 30's concerning PUA? Do those of you who are around my age see a difference in how you sarge as compared to those younger.

I just keep thinking that all these tactics might not work on women who are older and more mature, so I'd like to hear about others' experiences in this regard to see if I'm just psyching myself out. Any help?

Dude, I'm 38 too. I'm married, but enjoy sharing my skills, and trying out a PU routine every now and then, just for fun.

You absolutely do not have to be worried because of your age. With the techniques of the PU community, can get laid by HBs, even if you were 65. They would work at almost any age.

You absolutely, positively, have to read Mystery's book on the Venusian Arts. It spells out everything in such exact detail. After reading it, it would be almost impossible for you to lose. Especially if you used to have good game. This will take your game into the stratosphere. I was so blown away by it.

Good luck!

Thanks, man. Actually, at work today I decided to try some basic openers (I work in the produce section of an organic/gourmet foods store, so lots of HB's!), and got some positive responses. Unfortunately, I can only number close there.

I'm in the middle of Mystery's book right now. So far, quite good.

I'm learning that, although I've gained quite a bit of weight over the last few years, it doesn't matter as much as I thought.

I like the line in Mystery's book that women judge men 20% by their looks, and 80% by their survival ablity, i.e. status. With men it's the other way around. So the weight doesn't really matter, but I've found that losing the weight is a great confidence builder, and makes you into a more magnetic person.

Pick up some Tae Bo tapes, they are really fantastic and will whip you into shape fast.