Well fellow gamers I am new to this type of game, and I will start by saying I am a FNG and a recovering AFC from sunny cali USA.

I happen to see the VH1 show. I know lame, but I saw my self in the other AFC featured in the show. I decided to do some research, coming across this page I found a lot of info and advice leading me to the conclusion that I should at least give this hole thing a try, I mean what could I loose?

I’ve been frustrated because I’ve disconnected from my friends due to drug use, had some family targets over the past 2 years, and gained some weight. I find my self extremely lonely and not knowing how to restart my life.

After work today, I decided to give the notes I’ve been taking a small trial run, so I was on my way to the bank and saw a HB going on to a pet store. I flowed her in to the store and approached her after she had started her shopping. I opened with asking her advice on what kind of cat litter to get, and followed up with the story that I was going to be house sitting for my aunt and I didn’t know what to get for the cat. I was in like I’ve never experienced be for. It turned in to a two hour conversation. I didn’t really know what to do after attracting, compleatly spaced the qualifiying phase, and as we talked I tried to remember every thing I had seen and read, about IOI’s and body language. I didn’t have any real caned material so I just improved the whole way and found my self comfortable just being genuine. Dropped some DHV’s gave some NEG’s and was off and running. About 30 min’s in to the set she dropped that she had a BF( I suspected that she did when I first opened and saw the ring on her finger), but I was having a good time just chatting, and we seamed to be entertained by one another. Finely I ended the conversation and went on my marry way feeling better than I had ever felt after approaching a chick, and for once getting a positive response.

any advice or coments from the more experanced APU?

i thank you all for being part of this it has given me a renewed out look on life

Sin