| I'm new to this (see post titled "fill me in"), but I already have a specific question. There's a bar tender that I'd like to hook up with. I find girls that are "hired to look good" interesting because they realize it...and sometimes it makes for easier game.--in my experience, I like to act somewhat uninterested, and let them "fall" into us discussing plans for later in the evening.
Thus far, the chi (woman) has fit the category, but I find myself unable to close the deal. She keeps coming up just short of "what are you doing later," "well, you should call me," etc....there has got to be a way that I can be proactive in my approach, but I'm having trouble finding something that will work now---I've already established myself as socially secure, but impartial (I think...). I want to reinforce her for not being the typical "I get hit on by every guy" bartender, but I don't want to become aversive by being to forward, which, in my eyes, makes just the same as every chump that runs game on her.
Where should I look for advice? Ideas?
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