Well, I just turned 21 in June, broke up with my girlfriend of almost 4 1/2 years in august, and just moved into an apartment in chicago near Lincoln park. Which I swear could be the snatch capitol of the world. I just finished reading the mystery method, and am trying to use it not only to pick up chicks, but also to become more social; cuz a girlfriend could really keep you from being just that. Especially when your a dumbass and you think your in love. As for me and the game, I actually consider myself to be a pretty good lookin guy, but find myself getting approach anxiety which i'm working over. I feel once I get over this, and am able to be comfortable around hb's I'll be the shit. But until then, I'm still learning and am willing to keep on keepin on in order to get my game to the level I feel I can get it to.

DonAlberto

seems I am in the same situation. except a 2 yr relationship and turn't 21 in june also..Your right i've found it harder to approach now than before the relationship. But its something we must push through...I do believe some observing time in the field will help again..going from regular # closes to the odd f-closes to nothing after a relationship really sucks. its like learning it all over again.