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| EvoJ | PostPosted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 2:07 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Wed Aug 08, 2007 1:35 am Posts: 353 Location: Huntsville, Alabama | | Okay first tip.
You said that after you run outa shit to say you start asking boring questions. Turn those into not so boring statements. Like
"So, do you have any brothers or sisters?"
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"That reminds me of this time when me and my two brothers went on safari down by this huge river when we were younger. We ended up seeing this huge turtle, must have been 2 feet wide. So we wrestled that puppy to the ground and between the 3 of us we were able to take that puppy back home with us. I mean, we lived in the suburbs and I was 8 at the time so it could have been a bit different. " See note #1
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"I can see by the awesomeness of my mental prowess that you have 7 brothers and 4 sisters." See note #2
Note #1: This is funny AND it gets you talking about family. She may even ask! At the very least it is a great lead in for your questions on her family.
Note #2: Just fun and you find out what you wanted. Even if you are wrong (especially if she has no bro's or sis's) you can always say, Oh, well I guess I just took you for the youngest of 12. Young women, HATE to be called young and old women hate to be called old. Just the way it is.
Hope I helped.
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| P2D2 | PostPosted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 8:53 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Sat Jun 16, 2007 9:05 am Posts: 234 | | first of all, I don't advocate cheating..
But, basically you just have to demonstrate higher value than the boyfriend. It's especially easy if the boyfriend's not around because you're not competing directly.
If she says directly "I have a boyfriend", counter with something like "That's so cute! I have a puppy!" or something.
If the escalation feels like it was 'meant to be', then at the end of the night she'll forget about her boyfriend.
- Dex
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| EvoJ | PostPosted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 1:11 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Wed Aug 08, 2007 1:35 am Posts: 353 Location: Huntsville, Alabama | | There are multiple threads on Boyfriend Destroyers you can search for. Personally, I would advocate concentrating on the opening and then expand from there once you feel more comfortable.
Like as an example. When you can go from A1-A2 without even thinking then I would suggest beginning to hit A3 and so on. This way you will have all that time during A1 and A2 to think about the appropriate A3. And also this will get rid of any AA (Approach Anxiety) you may have.
The reason I mention this is because the "I have a boyfriend" response is very common and nowhere near honest a good % of the time. If you get it, just throw out a few boyfriend destroyers and worst comes to worst something will come out of it. But you will be new at destroying someone else in favor of yourself and they will probably come out on the bad side. Don't get descouraged and gl!
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