Hi peeps! Phreekstyle here. 34yr old single male in Hawaii. i have always been that kid that was never afraid to try anything new. Whether it was eating a bug, climbing onto a roof, or making a complete jackass of myself, i would always be the first one to try something just to say that i did it.

The only thing that froze me in my tracks was women. I could not approach them, nor could i say anything in front of them that wasn't insanely stupid. Then i made the mistake of falling in love with the best female friend i had ever had. When i finally got up the courage to say the things that had been going on in my heart for her... she gave me the LJBF speech. nothing hurt me in my LIFE like hearing the words "I love you like a friend, please understand."

Ever since then i have been chasing one-itis after one-itis like the masochist that i am. I read "The Game" and i want to find what Neil has found through his search in the community. I don't want super powers over women i just want to put my best foot forward so that when i meet my next one-itis hopeful, this will be the time i don't hear that awful speech.

I am just hoping that through the community, i can finally be that confident cocky guy that gets all the pussy. let the transformation begin!

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- phreekstyle
"Put ME at the top of your TO DO list"

Hi there PS


Anyway, you said how do you get rid of the voice telling you that you cant? well some people might claim they know how to, I call those people liars, in one way or another you never ever get rid of your entire AA, well if your dead that might work..hold your horses mate, I am not telling you to comit suicide all I am saying is that the AA inside you will exist, no matter what..but (some good news) You can slowly ohh so slowly make that side of your personality take less space inside your head, the voice which tells you you cant is something that we as a race have always had, thats what makes us so great..when we even tho beeing afraid or scared do something stupid or courages thats what makes us great..fear and anxeity is something we all have inside of us..as easy as that..can it be controlloed to a degree, yes I do belive so..but will it disapear, I regret to say that in my opinion its something that will always be there as a subconcoince thing which hits you..with no warning..but hey guess what..who gives a shit if we make ourselfs look bad..every now and then who does'nt?

What does'nt kill you makes you stronger!

Remember that fear is what made your existance possible.

SF

Good post by Slipfinger!!! Yeah Phreekstyles, time to tell your inner AFC to just shut the fuck up and be true to yourself to enjoy life. Let's go sarging!!!!!!!

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Our lives are not determined by what happens to us but by how we react to what happens, not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life. A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events, and outcomes.