Hi
I'm new in this forum and I have a Questions??

I was with my girlfriend for 1 year but we broke up about 2 months ago. I keep bugging her and send her daily emails and ask her to give us a chance.

She replies with emails tellinme she wants nothing to do with me nomore and I should move on. But here and there I receive messages from her sayin she loves me- I should get money and we can move back togehter and all this is in a 2 week rhytmn.

I'm from Europe origanlly but I live here in L.A. and seh tells me move back to europe I'm coming to visit you and maybe I stay there- that where her words 2 days agao. She also called me babe again and she said in her heart she loves me but her head tells her no.

So i really wann aknow do I have chances to get her back- is she confused and what can I do to get her back- I really love her and I know she does too.

I'm neither a pick up artist or anything else just an average dude who lost his almost wife- we talked teh day before it all ended about marriage and all that stuff.

So pleas guys help me out.

Please

thanks

Yep she's a premium.. You heard the old saying, "be careful what you wish for? You just might get it?"

You got two choices..

Win the lottery, or find somebody else..

Don't call her.. Tell her you have another girlfriend, then go find one.

Sounds to me like this girl is playing you, or just looking for the highest bidder, and that doesn't sound like you. You on the other hand have gotten far too wrapped up in this one woman, and she doesn't feel the same. At least not to the same degree. My feeling is you'll always come up slightly short when it comes to this girl for the foreseeable future. She will make you miserable. You didn't say how old she was. But I bet she's young. You know, in 10 years she'll probably be a different woman. A mature woman. And worth marrying or getting serious about. But now sounds like she's a premium looking for a wealthy sponsor.

If that's not you, then get over it.

Enjoy the fun and her company when it presents itself, then forget about it and move on to the next one while you work on your own game.. Plenty of fish in the sea. No harm in keeping in touch with her. Probably something changes with time. And one day she might be following you around like a whipped puppy.

Take my advice, if any woman has such powers over you, you should run like hell. Or prepare to be miserable.

Here's a good resource. You should study it very closely. It explains the various types of women out there, which ones you should take seriously and which ones you shouldn't. It's required listening. Even if its only the free clips.

http://cdbaby.com/cd/fjshark

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Read this. I think this is the road your headed down if you try to get with this girl.

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My girlfriend is just turned 40.

When we met she met me when I was broke and moved right in with her even dough she had a child that just got molested by her father.

We had planns together to marry and it was her decision to marry. I never even asked her and she always asked when I gonna propose.

Since our breakup I receive emails from her she loves me etc.. and as I said if I come up with one half of the Apartment move in we move toghter 2 days later she changes her miind.

She also told me 2 days ago when I decide to go back to Europe she wanna come to visit or even though life with me over there.

So I don't know what all tha means do you have some alternatives

This isn't what you want to hear but it just seems like she wants to use you. Has she said that she wants a relationship? It does not sound like it since you use the words "visit" and "live with you". Neither of those are a statement of intent to get back together. Reads as like she will come stay with you and you can pay for her and her child. She helped you out when you were broke so I can understand if you want to repay the favor just be careful not to mess up your life now that your back on your feet.

If she's 40 y.o, you should have a talk with her...

She should be mature enough to tell you exactly what she wants.. You can also tell her how you feel as well.

If not, just treat her like a friend. If she wants more she'll let you know.

Sounds more like you want to rescue her to me.. This aint a great idea. You can't rescue people from themselves...

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