So here I am at the tail end of my marriage, just about to be divorced by a gal that probably never loved me, and put me through hell to prove it. I realized that I've been her door mat, and given her everything her asked for and more. I see that I needed to be more at cause over my life and ordered a book called "How to Become an Alpha Male" and have a couple more coming in from Amazon. I haven't ordered "The Game" yet but will.

Basically, my soon-to-be-ex killed my self-esteem over the course of 15 years, (not that I had much to start with) and now I'm fat, broke and gameless. I look on the internet for a forum to comiz with other AFCs and low and behold here I am, not to comiz, but after a couple of evenings reading what you all have to say here, I want to declare that I will be truly at cause over how women treat me. I will learn from those here that share their advice with men like me, so that I can improve myself. I, in turn, will share my experiences with those who care to listen as I turn from a non-existent game to a power game.

I've started working on my body. I've dropped 27 pounds in the last 7 weeks, but still have 75 more to go to make my goal. I've been walking an hour every night for exercise and taking my vits regularly, and I'm starting to feel good again about my body.

Today, I practiced on to a couple of women just to chat them up to see what it felt like again, and found out that it wasn't as hard as I remembered it to be. And at the grocery store on the way home, one gal started chatting with me! She wasn't my type, but hey, it's a start!

Thanks to all that have come before me and are willing to share.