Ok, I've been in long term relationships for the last 13 or so years of my life and I'm recently divorced. Like a lot of you, I'm interested in pickup after reading the Mystery Method and of course the Game. I'd just like to be able to score a conversation with a beautiful girl without looking like a loser or some desperate creep, ya know...looking, sounding, feeling completely comfortable and confident. (I think I did feel that way in my mid to late 20's). I'm from Southeastern Massachusetts, obviously familiar with, but completely inexperienced with pickup. I'm a little shy and I think I do lack some self esteem. I've had my share of mediocre chicks, but I'd like to have my pick of the litter eventually. PLUS...I would like to be a dad someday, and that's probably not going to happen with women my own age!

-dreamboy

Welcome to the site. Every thing you need is here information wise, or can be refered to you. Sorry bout the divorce.

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Hey Dreamboy, I feel for ya, I just turned 30 and I've been divorced for about a year now. During and after my divorce, I decided to really change myself and learn to attract the type of woman that I want in my life. I think a part of it is that us divorcees want to know that we are still attractive to the fairer sex and we still have what it takes.

I've read the game and the mystery method, watched the videos, read many many books on relationships and seduction and kept up with the forums and what not. But I found that the best way for me was to just learn to work on myself and talk to women in general without trying to use canned openers or scripted text. Biggest thing for me was to learn to just approach women and talk to them as though they were someone I wanted to know but I wasn't interested in. Nice pleasant smile, casual but confident walk, and eye contact (dont stare, it freaks women out) and a "Hi" or something banal but relating to whats going on. ex. if your in line somewhere such as a bank (just look at her and say "hey how long have you been waiting? or "does it usually take this long?") just to open up a conversation. Yes I know, this almost goes against the whole MM theory and whatnot but it does come off more natually.

Anyway, its not the easiest road to take but you'll get there. You'll make mistakes along the way but thats how we all learn. Good luck.