Hi everyone! I'm Kitten.

You are probably wondering what a woman is doing on this board?!

I am here because I appreciate both sexes but picking up women as a female is, well, pretty challenging. So I turned to books like The Game, etc. And I have been absolutely fascinated (and a little bit creeped out, if i'm brutally honest) since. I hope you guys wont mind me being here, I have been loitering for a while but finally decided to introduce myself. I would be happy to give you feedback if you wanted a female opinion on anything, and would hugely appreciate any insider knowledge on being a female PUA...

Kitten x

welcome to the forum.. if you look around, you'll find other women here too... Zip and Paramour are two that i know of off the top of my head

Welcome to the fourm! It's always nice to meet a woman who kees an open mind. I'm actually curious about your view on the whole pickup concept.

Although I don't personally advocate canned materials, one thing that has always bothered me is that women who get mad at men for using canned routines are the same ones who put on tons of makeup to appear more attractive. The whole thing seems kind of like a double standard.

Welcome!
I am a girl too so yah to having another female member in the forum!

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Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

There's something I'd love to hear a female opinion on (no this is not an opener lol). What (from your perspective) is generally running through an attractive girl's mind when a guy comes up to talk to them? I don't mean a guy who's obviously trying to come up to a girl to hit on them but a guy who just comes up to start a conversation.

I don't know if this question is addressed to me BUT...

It kind of depends on the setting. If its on campus, coffee shop, book store, etc I usually think that he is being friendly. At a bar most guys are looking to pick up girls so I naturally think they are making conversations in order to do just that.

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"To Give anything less than your best is to sacrifice the gift" -Prefontaine

Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

How much do looks play into that for you personally?

Like if two guys, 1 ugly guy vs. 1 really hot guy come up to you and try to open you to conversation the exact same way in somewhere informal like the beach, a park or a coffee shop. How would the looks impact the way you respond and persue him?

looks don't count for much, personality is definitely the key.
However, if two guys of equal skill PUA-wise approach you, then the one that you are more attracted to is obviously going to be the one that 'wins'. That's not necessarily saying that looks are all important in attraction - you know there are some people that you 'just click' with. I suppose body language, eye contact, etc are important here.



K

Welcome. If you need anything let me know.

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- Zip

Welcome

A female reading the game to pickup females.. hmm interesting. Well the more woman the more fun i'd say. So welcome.

*Realizes he has only posted a welcome to new female members. Makes mental note to welcome other members as well*

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Welcome, always cool to have another female perspective.

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-Ka-
"Be the same, only better."

thanks everyone

Welcome! Where ya from? I am SURE a bunch of guys are looking for a TOP quality pivot to hang out with and I am sure you could fit the job well and because a pivot is essentially a "wingwoman" and there is nothing in the rules that a pivot can't be a "wingwoman" and not have a "wingman" with her to help her out in sarging....Honestly (NO OFFENSE) I think you could learn alot here myself being uncertain of how long you have been either gay or bi would think that most of the men in here have been trying to pick up women longer than you and you BEING a woman have great inside advice to offer so I really hope your knowledge can attribute to our own as well as vice versa and I hope to have more intertactions with you here!

~EeK

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