He guys,

I am all very new in the forum thing and everything that comes with it. I am Belushy, a Dutch living in Rome. I lost all the Game I had on this one girl and I have to get back on track, so I hope you guys will help me. I wish she had broken my hart instead of my mind, would have made it easier to klimb the mountain.

When I currently talk to a women I think to much about what she will think of what I say and if she will like it, do you have some tips to keep the conversation flow going, thing the women always react to?

I'm also looking for some bodylanguage tips that can help me with my first impressions when I walk up to a girl and try to open, this has not been a succes so far and most of the time I don't even do it...

Hope you can help me!

Thanks,
Belushy

Hey man,

I feel you on the breaking your mind instead of the heart thing. If we get deep into one-itis we can lose our minds beacause we have nothing to do when everything is for one girl. And then if she does not want us we can just go crazy.
As far as the conversations go, you need to take control. You should feel like ou are putting the girl into a situation where she feels like she is the one who needs to impress you, not the other way around. Sart gaining confidence by having this attitutde and trying it out and then the other "gesture" details stuff will fall into place.

Good idea man, It is nice to know that there are more people out there like me. It makes those feelings more normal and easier to deal with. I even managed to open up a set yesterday night.

When I opened I directly lost one of the two girls and I don't know why. Have you had this before. Of course I am in the beginning stage and there is still a loong way to go, but after opening my first set I feel more ready for it then ever!

Ciao

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Belushy

"The one that never falls, never rises"